See Yourself Out
For when they come back

What to text someone who ghosted you.

They went quiet. Now they’re back. We’ll draft three replies: open, level, closed. Pick one. Send it from your phone. Always free.

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How it works

Four small questions. Three written replies.

01

Tell us what happened

How long they were gone, what you were, how you want to land. Four steps. Nothing saved.

02

We draft three replies

The Open Door, The Levelheaded One, The Closed Door. Same situation, three postures.

03

Send the one that's yours

Edit freely. Copy, send, close the tab.

What it sounds like

Three postures, same situation.

No. 01

The Open Door

Curious without being warm. Asks the real question.

Hey. I'm honestly a little surprised to hear from you. The way it ended, or didn't, wasn't great, and I'm not sure what's changed. If there's something you actually want to say, I'm willing to hear it.

No. 02

The Levelheaded One

Acknowledges without making space. Names what happened.

Hi. It's been a while. I noticed you went quiet, and I figured that was the answer. I'd want to know what you're hoping for here before I say more.

No. 03

The Closed Door

Final. No invitation. No cruelty.

I appreciate the message, but I'm not picking this back up. Take care.

A note from us

You can also not reply.

Silence is also an answer. If they ghosted once and you’ve been doing fine, ignoring the message is a perfectly grown-up move.

This tool is for the times when you do want to say something, and the words don’t come.

FAQ

The questions that come up.

Why three drafts?+

Because you don't know yet which version of you wants to write back. Open is curious. Level is acknowledged but unmoved. Closed is final. Pick the one that matches the version of you that's actually here.

Is it really free?+

Yes. No account, no signup, no payment. All three drafts.

Do you store what I write?+

No. Your inputs and drafts live in your browser tab. Close it and they are gone.

What if I just don't want to respond?+

That's a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone a reply, especially not someone who didn't bother giving you one.

Should I respond at all?+

Up to you. This tool helps if you've already decided you want to say something. If you're still deciding, take another day. The text isn't going anywhere.